NFNLP's NLP Today E-zine
December 2008
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Something to think about from Dr. Wil Horton
Intro to NLP Today E-Zine
NLP Today E-Zine is a monthly series of articles that will bring you the best information in the world of NLP and Hypnosis. We will bring you articles that have been proven in the real world. Heavy with techniques and information you can use in your daily life, whether it's as a therapist with clients, business or sales, or just for self-development. We will get you the information you want and can't get. We focus on proven applications, not theory. Our trainers all "do the work." This is the difference that makes the difference. We cut the fluff and bring the main course. Mental Food you can use. NFNLP is the leader in this type of technology.
This is a service of the National Federation of NeuroLinguistic Psychology and Dr. Wil Horton. We want people to achieve their highest potential, and NLP is the #1 tool for this. You can achieve your dreams.
Captain’s Log:
Happy Holidays!
I will keep this short so you can enjoy the holidays!
As I write this, I am still recovering from the jet lag from Asia. It was a great trip, got to teach and do some consulting, so it was a great experience. Each time I travel I learn something new. One thing was the dramatic shift in perception from the election of our first President of color. It has renewed the great American dream; anyone can become president. We all wish him well in the coming years!
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NFNLP SPECIAL
Once again, in our own "NFNLP Tradition", we will share the following poem. It has been in our e-zines for the past four years...
Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to All!
I would like to share this poem sent to me by one of our trainers.
"Twas the night before a NLP Christmas"
by Ed Redard MD
"Twas the night before Christmas"
And look what I find
All these empowering resources
In my unconscious mind
My beliefs and values
Were aligned with great care
In hopes that Erickson
Could work with what's there
The fears of my past
Were all put to bed
While visions of trance
Danced in my head
I took a deep breath
And adjusted my cap
And settled my brain
For a long winters nap
When into my head
There arose such a clatter
I set up in bed
To see what was the matter
Deep into my mind
I flew like a flash
And shut out the world
By pulling the sash
My tender new beliefs
Shown white as the snow
And gave the luster of permanence
To the convictions below
When, what to my minds eye
Should curiously appear
But the kind Milton Erickson
Drawing me near
With hypnotic language
Seductively slick
I knew in a moment
He put me in trance quick
Reaching down in my memories
The resources they came
With a deep and slow voice
He called them by name
Now Courage, now Compassion
Now Love and Conviction
On Power, On Laughter
On Faith and Determination
To the top of mind
Deep inside I knew how
Now integrate! Integrate!
Integrate Now!
And then in a twinkling
Without any grief
Empowering new ideas
Integrated into beliefs
As I lounged in my head
And was turning around
Deeper into my consciousness
Erickson came with a bound
He was dressed all in purple
From his head to his boots
With his hypnotic skills
Resisting was moot
He was kindly and wise
And quite assured of himself
And I went into trance
In spite of myself
He spoke many strange words
And went straight to work
Creating new possibilities
And then turned with a jerk
Clutching onto an idea
To a dream he gave a whistle
And flew out of my mind
Like a heat seeking missile
But I heard him exclaim
As he flew out of site
Happy NLPing to all
And to all a good night!
Techniques and Tips:
This is a mini-coaching session with a 6-year old child we would like to share. It is an excellent example of how NLP techniques can be used in a variety of environments!
We would like to thank Dr. Joseph Dube for sharing it with us!
Coaching Session: Scary Nightmare with a Small Child, Age 6.
By: Dr. Joseph Dube
Issue/Background: My 6 year old daughter had a terrifying nightmare which prevented her from sleeping. The mere thought of going to bed absolutely terrified her. And, it was getting late (thus a brief, powerful yet simple intervention was necessary so we all could get some sleep!)
Description: The nightmare consisted of "a scary witch who was bald, with a green eye", at school looking in at me from (outside) the school yard door."
Modified NLP Protocol:
Capturing the Scene: I asked my daughter to draw the "scary picture" she had seen in detail, including, as best she could, the horrible, terrifying physical features of the witch/scene. I directed her to feel all those "yucky feelings" while trying to capture them as best as she could, with colour. When she said she was done, I could clearly see the green, malformed eye oozing out of the witch (scary indeed!)
I folded part of the page back, over the "scary picture" - to cover it completely with a clean part of the sheet.
Modified EMDR Eye Movements: I asked her to think of the scary image while humming the words to one of her favourite songs - "I got nerve" (by Hannah Montana) as I asked her to track my hand movements with her eyes. I had her track a Z-pattern, several infinity loops, and finally some up and down sweeps while she hummed her happy tune. Her smile grew noticeably bigger from this procedure.
Positive Picture: I then asked her to redraw a positive, happy version on the folded-over part of the page - a funny, big, bright, happy, friendly, fun-loving version. She seemed to perk up when I asked her to do this and included trees, sun, rainbow, picnic scene, hearts, pretty flowers etc. I also directed her to feel all the "happy feelings" associated with this new, vibrant scene and to "bring it to her heart" (hold it to her chest).
I asked her to rename the new picture, to which she eagerly exclaimed "Yellow, the witch."
Swish-like Flick: I then flicked the page over the negative image (-pic.) - like a door hinge to expose the happy positive image of "Yellow" the happy witch (+pic.) overtop. I repeated this process several times quickly until the images were suitably "morphed" together. As I snapped the pieces of the page together in dramatic fashion, I made a "bling" noise to which she laughed. (At this point, through slight of hand, I covertly tore off the -pic and tossed it into the garbage!)
I covertly tore the - pic off the backside of the page).
Modified Autopilot: I asked her to watch the picture as I moved the +pic. close to her, and "waved" it in (close) and out (back) of her visual field for the requisite number of presentations i.e., 1x, 5x, 10x, 40X, 10X, 5X, 1X. She giggled when I did this.
Anchor: I anchored her (touched the centre of her chest gently) when she laughed. I repeated the anchoring and said "look it is Yellow (anchor)."
"She's all better now (anchor)." "She feels happy (anchor) - just like you feel happy (anchor)."
Sling-Shot (modified Swish technique): I had my daughter imagine that a rubber band was pulling her +pic. back as I slowly pulled the image back and pretended to snap the image up close to her face (I ran up to her with it and said "snap"- - whereupon she laughed, each time).
Lasting Impression: I placed a drop of lavender essential oil (one of her favourite smells) on the +pic and placed a second drop under her nose, as a "sensual" anchor.
Repeated Autopilot
Repeat Sling-Shot
Repeat Anchor
Fairly Tale Conversation:"Yellow the witch thanks you for helping her…She wants you to realise that she came to you - and only you - because she knew only you could help her. She didn't mean to scare you in your dream, but that is the way witches show up sometimes. She had a small eye problem and she used to be teased by everyone so she used to hide away from the sun and come out only at night-time to be around people when everyone is asleep. Only you were brave enough to help her. Now that you've helped fix her eye she is so very, very, happy. She says that you are her best friend. She says that you can tap your chest and breathe in whenever you need her or want to play with her." "Oh, what's that…oh yeah, she says that she really really loves you!"
Result:
Yellow the happy witch slept with my daughter that night. She cooed "I'm so happy…I feel like crying now. "Tomorrow I would like draw Yellow a witch family and some witch friends."