However, we can't ask everyone we meet to use proper words with us, and we can't teach them why and how, mostly because the context of the meetings doesn't allow it.

Therefore, smart ones should prepare themselves to encounter some words that have negative affects. Positive reframing is one of the many ways to handle such unease. Positive Reframing can give us a capacity to hear whatever anyone says in beneficial tones we like.

Now, you can think of any of those negative single worlds like, fear, fail, fool, to mention only some. Imagine hearing it from someone and notice how it could change your mood even in a moment, when was the last time you heard such an annoying word?!

As we consider choices here, to overcome such feelings, here are some examples to see how we change our inner response and hear that word in a soft caring way. (This can be applied on more than words. We can do the same with images, sounds, and feelings that are attached to negative inner responses.

First, list words that bother and hurt you to hear. Then on the other side write the suggested positive meaning (Reframing) for them.

Now, imagine that person using one of such words, and you hear it the way you want because it is your responsibility to react to what others say. You don't need to bother a lot about why they use such irritating words as soon you can benefit from it and so something better than feeling sad and upset.